MANY MEN WOULD WANT AN ERECTION HAPPENED AT THE FIRST REQUEST…
— Erection does not depend on our will. This is very important, and few men are aware of this. An erection is a reaction to psychological and sensory stimuli that reach the brain. Only from here the signal goes to the spinal cord. Under the influence of the signal, the nerves release nitric oxide, which opens the blood vessels in the penis. This blood first fills the spongy body through which the urethra passes, and then the cavernous body. If we look at the section of the penis, we see a whitish border, inside which two cavernous bodies, and between them passes the urethra. It’s a bit like a surprised alien with a pair of huge eyes.
“Eyes” are the cavernous bodies of the penis that work a bit like balloons. They are filled with blood — the penis increases and rises. The blood presses on the protein shell, and it becomes a blockade for the blood, not allowing it to go away.
IT’S NOT SO SIMPLE.
— This is a complex mechanism, so with age sexual automatism from us moves away: for his work need too many just.
It is important to remember (and we will remind you of this) that erection problems are a natural order of things.
Once the male penis supported the bone, which is still there in some vertebrates. And in humans, in the process of evolution, this bone disappeared.
WHY?
— There’s a theory that women are behind this. They chose men who responded to them with true passion, not a reflex erection supported by bone. Therefore, sexologists and psychotherapists perceive the lack of sexual automatism as something absolutely natural. We must remember that the mechanism of erection and in General our sexuality is influenced by many factors, not only physical, but primarily mental.
— CAN DO SOMETHING TO HELP, OR, CONVERSELY, TO INTERFERE WITH ERECTION?
— Yeah. In sexology distinguish the stimuli, excitatory and inhibitory erections. We are hampered by fear, fear, depression, bad mood, cold, approach to sexual intimacy as a school task, over which you need to fight until you solve it. Support erection visual and auditory stimuli, smells, touch, memories, sexual fantasies, warmth.
Grandparents of world sexology, William masters and Virginia Johnson, divided the cycle of human sexual reactions into four phases: I — excitation, II — plateau, III — orgasm, IV — resolution.
SO, FIRST IS THE EXCITEMENT PHASE.
— It starts with psychogenic or physical stimulation. My teacher, Professor Lev-Starovich, repeats that the duration of an erection caused by arousal depends on age. In men under 25 years it lasts about 54 minutes, at the age of 31-55 years falls to 27 minutes. In 60-65 years erection lasts for about 10 minutes, and after that — a maximum of 7. Of course, this is not due to the duration of the act, which usually lasts an average of two to eight minutes. Most often three minutes, so most poles have sex for about 180 seconds.
— WHAT HAPPENS IN THE EXCITEMENT PHASE? IN ADDITION, WE SEE THAT THERE IS AN ERECTION.
— During an erection, a small amount of lubricant is released from the urethra, which protects the head from injuries and increases sliding into the vagina. In addition, the spermatic cord is reduced, so that the testicles rise up to the groin. In the excitement phase is accelerated breathing, increased heart activity, blood pressure rises. And here begins the plateau phase.
The penis in this phase lengthens, increases in diameter and changes color. Usually it acquires shades of red. Testicles increase by half, rise even higher, as close to the groin. Muscles tense up, blood pressure increases, heart activity.
— AFTER, WHEN I RUN UP THE STAIRS.
— It is interesting that from the plateau phase a man can go further to the phase of orgasm, and can return to the phase of excitement, without orgasm. A lot depends on the quality and quantity of stimulating stimuli and the threshold of sensitivity of a man on the way to orgasm. I have a patient who after 25 minutes of intense Masturbation can get an orgasm, and if it is stimulated (manually or orally) by another person, it takes twice as long.
— HARD WORK.
— The next phase is orgasm. Sperm is ejected from the urethra during rhythmic contractions. They occur every 0.8 seconds. After about four contractions, their frequency and ejection force decrease. The latter may decrease with age. In young men, sperm is ejected by 30-40 centimeters. Have thirty-year — about 15. Those whose best times are behind — just a few centimeters. After 40 years sperm rather follows from the urethra than shoots.
— AND THEN — REGARDLESS OF AGE — THE STAGE OF COMPLETION OF THE REACTIONS.
— In the resolution phase includes relaxation of the muscles of the pelvis, the disappearance of erection, as the blood pours from the cavernous bodies. the Member changes color back to solid. The scrotum ceases to be so dense, relaxes and goes folds like a Shar Pei. Testicles are falling. There is a feeling of blissful fatigue, which sometimes leads to the fact that the man turns away and dives into the arms of Morpheus.
As you can see, roughly speaking, men’s sexuality works like an electric oven.
— NOT SEE…
— We turn the plug into the socket, and the oven immediately becomes warm. Take out — the stove is cold.
HOWEVER, IT HAPPENS THAT NOT PLUGGED IN, THE OVEN THROWS OUT FROM ITSELF SPERM. IN THE DREAM, WE TOO ARE GOING THROUGH THESE PHASES?
— Pollutions — the only uncontrolled seed. An overabundance of sperm accumulated during the day, under the influence of erotic dreams at night is thrown out of the body.
— IT IS FOR ALL MEN STANDS IN THE SAME QUANTITIES?
— Depends on diet, physical activity, amount of moisture in the body. The better a man takes care of himself, the more pre-ejaculate.
— YOU CAN PANIC IF SOMEONE IS USING THE INTERRUPTED ACT.
— There are sperm in the pre-ejaculate. Not as much as sperm, but enough to fertilize. Even if it’s just a few drops of seed. Therefore, I strongly do not recommend interrupted sexual intercourse as a method of contraception. In General, sexologists do not refer it to contraception.
— WHY DO SOME MEN THINK PREDANOST UNSIGHTLY?
— There are clean with obsessive-compulsive syndrome, especially they are concerned about the appearance and smell of secretions. They interrupt the foreplay because they need to bathe — rather wipe. When they have sex, they are usually wrapped around paper towels, napkins to wipe away traces of grease or semen at any time. Usually their partners quickly cease to love and such people, and sex with them.
— HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS WITH YOUR DISCHARGE?
— Is carting in the lubrication of your partner to lie in it. It’s the same with ejaculation. It’s a natural thing. Many women after sex like to hug, lie still, look in the eyes — and some men immediately run to wipe. Such women come to me and say that they do not want to make love with a man who behaves as if trying to wipe them off as dirt. “Let him look for one who has no secretions, and I will find a man who will accept me and my physiology.” Therefore, women often stop sexual relations with such men. Often forever.
OUR GENITALS NEED NOT ONLY TO HAVE SEX FROM THEM AS URINE. FOR NEAT THIS MUST HAVE BEEN A SHOCK.
— Often there are men who during sex want to look the partner in the eye, on her Breasts, face and so on, and not on her crotch. They shorten the prelude as much as possible, do not like oral sex, rely only on penetration, which leads to the fact that when they finish, the woman only begins to be excited.
AND THEY’RE NOT WAITING FOR HER.
— Turn on the other side, and the woman remains unsatisfied. And if there was a prelude, there would be caress, kisses, oral sex, maybe (and most likely), she would be happy and without orgasm. But first of all, a man must accept her physiology.
— YOU SAID IN PREDECORATED HAVE A LITTLE BIT OF SPERM. AND HOW MANY OF THEM IN SPERM?
— There are millions of sperm in the sperm, thousands in the pre-ejaculate. Both are always ready for battle.
This is generally interesting, because according to recent studies, the number of sperm has decreased more than twice in the last 50 years. Once there were 200 million in one serving, now there are 90 million. This means that our testicles produce them in half.
— SOMETHING HAPPENED?
— Many reasons. Deteriorated nutrition, the testicles often overheat because of the laptops, little traffic, little sleep, tight underwear.
AND SPERM THE TESTICLES PRODUCE THE SAME AMOUNT?
Sperm is produced by the testes. There are only a sperm and male sex hormones, i.e. androgens. The main androgen — testosterone, which is responsible for physical and psychological traits, regulates attraction in men and women.
The rest of the sperm is produced in the seminal vesicles. Seminal fluid takes about 70 % of the ejaculate. It includes fructose, enzymes, proteins, vitamin C and prostaglandins.
— SPERM FERTILIZES THE EGG, WHAT IS THE FUNCTION OF SEMINAL FLUID?
— She’s diluting the seed so the man doesn’t shoot hard plastic balls like airsoft fans running around in the woods shooting at each other. In addition, it makes sperm more mobile, helps them to Wade through the female birth canal.
— FROM SEMINAL VESICLES IS THERE ANY HEAD?
Yes, testosterone. A high concentration of testosterone affects the activity of the seminal vesicles, and thus the amount of ejaculate.
— HOW LONG SPERM LIVES?
— He lives about a month where it is produced and stored — in the appendage of the testicle. It’s such a cadet school for the spermatozoa, where they are stored, armed, trained.
In the birth canal of women they live an average of two days, but the sperm of young people aged 16-25 years can live up to 7 days. This is important to remember. If someone at this age perceives the interrupted act as a means of contraception, he can be very surprised. As well as the girl who is sure that ovulation will be only in three days and there is nothing to worry about. Fertilization can occur in three days.
— AND HOW DO THEY LIVE OUTDOORS?
— On a sheet sperm will live about two minutes. Theoretically, if a woman wipes herself with a towel that a man has just wiped himself with after Masturbation, she can get pregnant. Or if she sits on the toilet seat where the ejaculate hit. Whether there are such situations, I don’t know, but theoretically they are possible. Sexologists sometimes tell each other a story about a brother who finished on the toilet seat, which later became pregnant with his sister.
— THAT IS URBAN LEGEND THERE IS A GRAIN OF TRUTH. WHAT ABOUT THE SPERM THAT DON’T SHOOT?
— They live another month in appendages, and if ejaculation does not occur, the so-called autolysis occurs — they dissolve and are absorbed into the body.
— A MONTH IS QUITE A LOT TO GET A CHANCE TO COMPETE FOR ACCESS TO THE EGG.
— The Chinese believe that sperm is produced once and for life, like eggs, and they need to be protected. They considered that men of strong Constitution can have sex twice a day, and thin — once a day. But this applies to young people, and after 45 you can have no more than one ejaculation in three days. After 60 — one in 20 days. After 70 — one a month. Well, the elderly should refrain from ejaculation (laughs).
WESTERN SEXOLOGY DOES NOT CALL US TO SAVE SPERM.
— There is no such need. Yes, during sex or Masturbation, you can restrain ejaculation to enhance the sensations of orgasm, but doctors recommend that ejaculation eventually come.
— AND IF THE PERSON IS EXCITED, CARESS THEMSELVES OR RECEIVE AFFECTION FROM A PARTNER, BUT EJACULATION WILL NOT COME?
— I have a patient who reacts with fear to manifestations of sexuality. For a year he meets his woman, but still never with her cum. Only when he returns from her the next day, he Masturbates. But his appendages are already swollen, because the sperm all the time waiting for orgasm. Because of the excess sperm they stretch, it causes pain. It can even lead to inflammation. I recommend him to masturbate in front of his partner, but he is ashamed.
IN GENERAL, GENTLEMEN, THE SPERM CAN NOT SAVE.
— Exactly. Don’t be greedy. There is one situation where it can justify itself in the short term. When you’re trying to have a baby, and a woman is ovulating, you should abstain a day or two to sperm became more.
I KNOW MEN WHO ARE INCREDIBLY SENSITIVE ABOUT THE SPERM. SOME WOULD LIKE TO CALL TO YOUR EJACULATION NEW FLOOD.
— It would be difficult, as in each ejaculation about five milliliters of sperm — a teaspoon. But in porn films we often show how sperm flies, and flies, and flies… it Happens that the actor is attached to a thin hose, which from our perspective is not visible. From there, the kefir is pumped out, and everyone thinks that this is such an incredible ejaculation. Those who have low self-esteem, immediately compared with the actor himself and think that they have something wrong. Even in a teaspoon there will be several tens of millions of sperm.
— OKAY, THAT’S ENOUGH. AND WHAT ABOUT THE SMELL AND COLOR OF SEMEN? THEY, TOO, ARE DIFFERENT.
— Color, taste, smell of sperm depend on nutrition. For example, if a man smokes and drinks a lot of alcohol, the sperm will smell sharp and not very nice. It will not be white, and yellowish, and tasteless.
Interestingly, in smokers and alcoholics, the amount of semen decreases, and sperm become less mobile and lose the ability to navigate. Colleagues in the urology conferences we are often reminded about it.
— SO I’M GOING TO SOLDER THE SPERM.
— Don’t smoke them either. The taste and smell of sperm is also badly affected by red meat, garlic, asparagus, spicy seasonings. Light Mediterranean diet will help bring the sperm to life: give her a nice look and smell.
I HEARD THAT SEMEN SMELLS GOOD PINEAPPLES.
— As are most vegetables as well as peppermint, parsley, cinnamon, citrus, bananas, strawberries.
A lot depends on whether the sperm is fresh or not. If a man ejaculates, say, every second day, he will have a good, thicker and whiter sperm than ejaculating once every few weeks.
— IT IS WORTH TO REMEMBER, ESPECIALLY THOSE WHO LOVE TO CUM IN YOUR MOUTH. WHERE DOES THIS NEED?
— For many men to finish the partner or the partner in a mouth — a sign of trust and safety, for others — an element of game which basis is domination.
— HAVE SOMETHING TO TELL ME?
— In women this usually causes or neutral emotions, or disgust, that men absolutely it is unclear. Often it turns out in conversations:
— Okay, you’re gonna come in my mouth, but then we’re gonna kiss, and I’m gonna give you some sperm.
— You’re crazy!
— Why? That’s your sperm. You say it smells good, it’s edible.…
— SHOULD I SWALLOW YOUR SPERM?
— No, you’re just trying.
That’s gross.
— Then why do you force me to do a vile thing?”
And such conversations take place everywhere, from the Tatras to the Baltic.
— DO YOU AGREE?
— Surprisingly, after such exchange of views, the idea of swallowing semen rapidly disappearing.
Even in the matter of assessing the smell of sperm in women and men opinions differ. Men say it’s neutral, and women say it’s weird, like fabric bleach or chestnuts.
— CHESTNUTS?
— On the Internet you can buy different wonderful and expensive drugs to change the taste of sperm, although in fact enough diet.
— YOU SAY THAT THE SEMEN, LIKE URINE, AGE IS THROWN AT A SHORTER DISTANCE?
— Yes, it’s a prostate issue. Just last week I had two clients in their forties who noticed that until recently they had finished at a distance of 60-90 centimeters, and now — just a few. They are sure that on it their sexual activity came to an end that now there will be problems with an erection and the desire will be gone. And this does not indicate any problems. It’s just a natural change in the body.
HAVE OLDER MODEL LESS COVERAGE.
— Men pay a lot of attention to their ejaculation, sometimes too. My client, who is single, sometimes likes to go on dates with men whom she meets through the Internet. During the last such date at the end of sexual intercourse, the partner took out her penis, took off the condom and began to masturbate, then finished: a little on her, a little on the TV, a little on the wardrobe, a little on the curtain, a little on the bed…
— THIS IS THE SCOPE THE GUY.
He had a territorial instinct that told him to mark space. He was waving his penis, and she was lying there feeling completely unnecessary, because he had not made any contact with her, even visual.
— SHE COULD AT THIS TIME TO INCLUDE THIS OBKONCHENNYE TV OR READ.
— He didn’t have sex with her at all, just himself, his cock, his ejaculation. This is very selfish and immature behavior.