— YOU ONCE SAID THAT THREE QUARTERS OF MEN BELIEVED THAT THEY ARE TOO SMALL.
— Yes, and it’s very interesting, because phrenology — pseudoscience, defining character traits based on the shape of the skull, lived very long. Scientists eventually announced that the shape of the skull, whatever it was, absolutely nothing says. While it is still actively used by some subsection of phrenology, or rather, paleology, in relation to the type and size of the penis.
— AND WHAT TELLS US A LARGE PENIS?
— I had a client who approached me during the third relationship in my life. The first partner loved him very much, it was a monogamous, loving relationship. The woman said that he had a huge penis, it is, of course, very uplifting to him, although his penis was normal. Thirteen centimeters.
For some reason, he broke up with her. The second partner, like the first, was delighted with him.
HE WAS LUCKY WITH WOMEN.
— They were his secretaries, his assistants, girls much younger than him who were just starting out. The difference in experience, social status was noticeable, so they were so sensitive to him, so blindly in love with him.
He met the third woman — the Manager of the firm with whom they signed the contract. They started Dating, from her he learned that he had a normal penis. He didn’t seem worried about it, and then they went to a Swingers party where he made sure his dick was smaller than some men’s. Of course, he did not take into account the fact that his penis is larger than that of some participants in a sex party.
WHAT DID HE FEEL?
— He came to me completely broken. Up to this point, he felt power: a large penis, a luxury apartment, a high position in the firm, a sports car. When one of these foundations fell, he began to doubt the others: “Now everyone will think that I’m a liar, not the Director.”
ALL FELL LIKE DOMINOES.
— He perceived his apparent size of a member (because in reality it was not so big) as legitimization of his power. I think a lot of men take it that way. I have a big cock — and a pass to a better life.
— THE LARGER THE BETTER.
— Twenty centimeters is the absolute minimum that most men would like to have. I ask the client why he needs a penis of twenty centimeters.
— Why? I would then be able to satisfy a woman.
Don’t you know? The more, the deeper I get. The woman will get more pleasure.
— How do you know?
— How where? It’s obvious!
— MANY READERS PROBABLY WOULD HAVE SIGNED UNDER THIS “OBVIOUS” KNOWLEDGE.
I’m sure. Again, I am told that I have gaps as a specialist. And they came from somewhere absolutely erroneous belief that stimulation of the posterior wall of the vagina can cause is the only true orgasm, the vaginal.
Freud said that clitoral orgasm — immature, and all this was postponed, although this idea of his long ago denied. But few people have heard about the refutation.
— IF YOU HAVE A BIG DICK, THEN IN BED YOU ARE THE KING?
— It’s easy, but wrong. Most men think that the posterior wall of the vagina has the highest concentration of nerve endings, but in fact most of them are on the outer parts of the genitals, that is, in the clitoris, labia, at the entrance to the vagina. A man with a clever tongue will make a greater splash among women. But in the back wall of the vagina nerve endings least.
The mechanism of error is simple: men think that the vagina is a member of the “opposite”, and since they are most susceptible to touch and stimulation of the head, then women should have more nerves at the end of the vagina. They conclude that during sex there are two parts filled with nerve endings: the head of the penis in a man and the back of the vagina in a woman, and an orgasm is obtained.
BUT NOT THIS TIME.
— When I tell them that in fact a long penis will bring a woman as much pleasure as a man a blow to the scrotum, from the first time no one understands it. “How? So she was in pain?”Yes! Clients who have a penis length of 20-22 centimeters often tell me about failures in sex, women complain of pain.
— HOW MANY CENTIMETERS IN THIS CASE IN A “NORMAL” PENIS?
— The average length of the penis in Poland is 12-15 centimeters. Studies have shown that only one man in a thousand penis length 23 centimeters.
I HAVE JIMI HENDRIX WAS 3 °INCHES. THERE WAS EVEN A CAST, BUT SOMETHING WAS MISSING.
— That’s why they still talk about him — he was an exception. But Rasputin’s penis, in which there were 33 centimeters, was not lost, it can be seen in the Museum of eroticism in St. Petersburg . To the people coming down in droves. I recommend a very interesting place.
Returning to the Polish realities: telephone surveys were conducted, according to which the average length of the penis was slightly higher, although it can be safely assumed that men who answered the phone, a little added to themselves, and some may have doubled the size. It was more a concert on demand than real data.
— WHAT IS THE DESIRE UNDERNEATH THAT INCREASE IN SIZE?
— I think that the desired size has symbolic meaning. It’s about dominating a woman. Once a man wants to “fuck” a woman, he has a feeling that this should be done using a tool of the appropriate size.
ROMAN GENERALS AFTER A VICTORY ENTERED THE FALLEN CITY WITH A HUGE ARTIFICIAL PHALLUS, WHICH PROUDLY ABOVE THEM STOOD (STOOD). BUT THE ANCIENT GREEKS LARGE PENISES WERE CONSIDERED PRIMITIVE AND ATTRIBUTED THEM TO THE BARBARIANS.
— All civilizations had their own customs. Unfortunately, we live in a civilization in which big members love. What is interesting: the cult of the penis is limited only to men. Straight and Homo, no exceptions. Maybe five percent of the women in my office said that the penis was important to them. In fact, a huge and sticking out, as in men’s fantasies, most often women are not impressed. Well, except for those who are already addicted to pornography, cybersex, or it’s just very rare cases.
A woman loves a member because it is part of the body of her beloved man.
What is interesting, I do not know any woman who would treat the penis with such enthusiasm, what a man expects from her.
— THOSE WHO HAVE COMPLEXES THAT THEY ARE TOO SMALL, TOO?
— Many men believe that if they have a small penis, it is necessary to compensate partners for pleasure with the help of oral sex. They think that the pleasure of penetration women will not get. Some do not even realize this, and only after many sessions of psychotherapy understand why they do it. Others do this consciously, but usually do not tell their partners about their motivation. I think it would be good if they talked about it directly.
IT IS POINTLESS TO BEAT AROUND THE BUSH.
— Exactly. And I have the impression that they are suitable to the mechanisms of erection, as to the appearance of a butterfly from a caterpillar. Just that he was small, and now big. It always impresses them. And they share this delight with their partner, who does not see any special miracle in this.
It is worth emphasizing that a small member at rest with an erection increases markedly, and a large one is not very noticeable. The penis, which is at rest 4 centimeters, will increase to 13-14, and 8-centimeter — to 12.
— MEN HAVE PROBLEMS WITH WHAT THE LENGTH OF THEIR PENIS AT REST?
Most often. Because when they see other men’s penises — on the beach, in the pool — they compare them to their own. Usually they think that the larger the penis at rest, the more it becomes in an excited state. That’s not true.
— ACCORDING TO THE LESS POLITICALLY CORRECT THEORY, THE SIZE OF PENIS DEPEND ON RACE.
— Many of my clients replicate the myth that Africans have large penises. But there is little truth in that.
— A LITTLE TRUTH?
— Yes, because Africans have on average a member of more, than have Europeans, just on 2-3 centimeter. That’s not a very shocking difference.
Europeans would also like such an African giant. At the same time, they do not know that the erection of Africans is not as tough as that of Europeans.
AND, IT SEEMS, IS POINTING DOWN.
— Yeah. And an erection have Asians less European, but more hard and directed upward, to navel.
One day a woman came to my office who did not understand her partner’s behavior at all. She’d been Dating him for months, and every time they had sex, he’d take his dick out of his pants in a black condom.
HE WENT IN THE CONDOM?
— He prepared in advance. When she asked him why, he replied that in porn he saw how exciting members of Africans look, and decided that it would make a greater impression on the woman. “You’ll finally have the African dick you’ve been dreaming of.” And she never dreamed of black cocks.
— THAT IS, IT WAS HIS DREAM, NOT HERS.
— So he’s fantasizing about what she’s fantasizing about. Classic error in communication partners.
— A BLACK PENIS SEEMS TO BE — GROUP MANIA FRUSTRERANDE WHITE MEN.
— It has become very popular to have holidays in Africa. Often I get clients who buy very loose shorts before the trip, so that the difference with the local ones is not so evident. And on the beach, they are constantly secretly staring at their penises.
— THIS BOAST ADDS A CM AND WANTS TO BE A MEMBER OF THE EVOKED UNIVERSAL ADMIRATION. HENCE COMES THIS PRIMITIVE GESTURE, WHEN MEN IN PUBLIC TRANSPORT LEGS. THEY WANT TO SHOW WHO IS THE MAN? FROM THIS POSITION THERE WAS EVEN A NAME — MANSPREADING. IN MADRID AND NEW YORK ARE NOW JOINING A WAR AGAINST SUCH BEHAVIOR IN TRANSPORT.
— There’s uncertainty behind it. Men definitely need to add something, because they are not enough. As some back to the car attach a large whale fin. They want to conquer this place, to conquer space, to prove (first of all, to themselves) that they have the right to do so.
— BECAUSE THEY HAVE A DICK.
— Some species of monkeys show members of the opponents to dominate, to show who’s boss. This mainspreading, apparently there’s some atavism. Maybe it’s a signal from some very old part of our brain called the reptile brain.
— BY THE WAY, ABOUT THE DEMONSTRATION OF THE GENITALIA: MEN COMPARE THEMSELVES WITH PORN ACTORS, THOSE ARE USUALLY ALL RIGHT. AND THE AUDIENCE CAN GIVE RISE COMPLEXES.
— And causes. Porn actors are selected specifically on the basis of size, and if someone is deprived of nature — removed from certain angles. It seems that they have giant penises, but in fact it is an optical illusion and installation.
— FOR SOME REASON WE DON’T BELIEVE REPLICANTS FROM “BLADE RUNNER” IN A ZOMBIE, BUT IN A HUGE COCK WITH PLEASURE.
— According to a recent study, watching pornography at the same time with Masturbation, our brain perceives the same as engaging in actual intercourse. So when you see huge Dicks on the screen, you write in your head that it’s real and you need to have the same. This is what gives rise to the complexes. They begin to think that worse than others. And they come to me only for the fact that I confirmed it to them.
— SOME KIND OF MASOCHISM.
— They believe it so much that they only want confirmation. And this — advice on how to increase a member. At least two or three men a week come to me, who feel dissatisfied because they bought a penis enlargement or erection on the Internet, which did not work. These are different things: tablets, creams, gels, devices for pulling, weights, gum, straps. Already dozens of different inventions. Men use these means, of course, they do not work, so then they come to me to fix what they are so wrong that even it did not help them.
THEY DO NOT THINK THAT THE DEVICE ITSELF IS SOMETHING WRONG?
— Absolutely not. I tell them that it could not work, that it is a fraud, and they need to work on why they are trying to use these funds. But they do not want to work on these problems. They leave me and never come back. They do not want to overcome this misconception about themselves.
— WHAT’S THE IDEA?
That they’re flawed. After all, not only that they have a small member, so also a special tool from the Internet did not work for them. And after all on site was said, that works! There was a lot of positive feedback from customers! No matter that fake.
— YOU TELL THEM THAT THEY ARE FLAWED?
— When they do not hear from me, a specialist, something that confirms their thoughts, they do not want to believe me. I’m no longer their authority.
Clients with whom I worked for many sessions, suddenly came to me and said: “Andrzej, I listened to what you tell me, but on the Internet advertise such a tool, a gel that helps to lengthen the penis, and I, no matter what, I want to try.” I recommend you to spare money — but to no avail. He buys this gel, so what? It’s not working. This is, by the way, some incredible business. Someone makes a living by lying.
— I WONDER WHAT IS INCLUDED IN THE COMPOSITION OF OINTMENTS.
— Like a grated Spanish fly. Acts on the skin irritating, causing the penis to swell. Such an allergic reaction.
— AND SOME INSTEAD USE THE OINTMENT, READY TO GO UNDER THE SURGEON’S KNIFE.
— These well-known operations have little chance of success: the penis can be extended by a maximum of 1-2 centimeters. At the same time there is a huge probability (more than 80 %!) that the planted material will not take root.
— WHERE DO YOU GET THIS STUFF?
— From the leg, some put strips of fat.
— PROBABLY, LOOKS NOT VERY PRETTY?
— At first it looks good, but fat tends to be absorbed, roll into lumps, which after a while the penis may look like a man with a Michelin logo.
— WHY MEN DECIDED ON SUCH STEPS?
— One of my clients has never shown his partner naked, although they have been together for more than three years. She thinks he’s just really shy: out of the shower in a towel, have sex only in the dark or under a blanket. And he’s afraid she’ll laugh at his little penis. At the same time, a woman in love increases the size of her lover’s penis by 3-4 centimeters. Research on this topic is described in the book Pan niepokorny, kulturowa historia penisa (“Mr. rebellious, cultural history of the penis”) . However, when love comes, it thinks in realistic, or even diminish in size. Especially if the breakup was on a bad note. “My ex had a little something to say about it.” In none of the cases did she make a mistake, but only subjectively said what she felt.
— CULTURAL NORM IS VERY HIGH, OFTEN UNREALISTIC. IT’S BAD.
— Harmful — to put it mildly. Such beliefs have a devastating effect on men, and often on their relationships.
— THEN THEY SHOULD BE HAPPY WHEN YOU TELL THEM THAT THEIR MEMBERS ARE NORMAL?
— Once I at the first meeting said that the size of their penis is not a problem. It ended with sarcastic remarks that I was talking nonsense. So I have been working differently for a long time. First we build a sense of security. I’m listening, we’re talking. It takes 3-4 sessions. I’m waiting for us to trust each other.
— TRUST IS BUILT — WHAT NEXT?
— I’m asking the client if he’s read any studies on the average penis size. What is his conviction based on? If we want to argue — please, but let’s rely on the facts.
During such conversations gradually, very slowly, their eyes open. It’s shock. As if you were brought up on cartoons about Donald duck and suddenly learned that not all ducks are able to talk. My attempts to persuade clients to study the facts continue for a long time.
WHY IS IT SO DIFFICULT TO BELIEVE THAT SIZE IS NOT A PROBLEM?
— The male world is filled with rivalry. We compete in sports, work, love Affairs, among friends and in the family. Men compare their penis with strangers — in the locker room, under the shower in the gym, near the urinal. Who has more? And I think that the one who has more, more.
— AS A MONSTER TRUCK.
— Exactly. What is interesting, some heterosexual men, who, for example, look at other people’s penises in the pool, there are thoughts: “What the hell am I looking at? Am I gay? No. And after all looked!”And this is the mechanism of evolution: does it have less or more? Oh, less than that. Phew. I’m not afraid of that.”
BUT TODAY NO NEED TO STRUGGLE WITH OTHER MALES FOR THE OPPORTUNITY TO FERTILIZE THE FEMALE.
— Today won’t come from penis size to make any normal conclusions because sex in relationships should be assessed as well as friendship. If I have a good friend, I can give up the competition. If I went to play squash with him and lost, I wouldn’t lose my peace of mind, on the contrary, it was good that we played together — wasn’t it? So it should be in sex.
If we can turn off the friendship rivalry, we can do it in bed. It does not matter that our member differs from our former partner that we not so quickly bring her to an orgasm.
ESPECIALLY GIVEN THAT WE CAN NOT RADICALLY TO CHANGE IT.
— Changing the direction of thinking brings a lot of benefits, not only to the man himself, but also to his relations. It is better to focus on the relationship with a partner or partner, rather than on a virtual rivalry with pornography and someone’s sexual past.
— MAKE FRIENDS WITH YOUR DICK. NO MATTER WHAT IT IS.
— You won’t have anything else. And besides, with a large penis really associated with big problems. The vagina of an unexcited woman is only five centimeters long and adapts very slowly to the penis, because it slowly lengthens and moisturizes. Men who have a small penis, win, because they will not hurt a woman.
— LOOKS LIKE SEX MEN WITH BIG PENISES?
— They talk about sex as a walk on a minefield. It hurts here. Here it rubs. Partners begin to avoid sex. And often do not admit it as long as they can still tolerate.
— AND ON A SMALL MEMBERS OF THE WOMEN COMPLAIN?
— It happens that they say: “You know, with the former I felt such fullness, and this dangles like a pencil in a glass. I can barely feel it.” And when I ask her if she’s straining Kegel muscles, she doesn’t know what I’m talking about. She does not train the muscles of the vagina, so she does not feel a partner.
— HOW TO CHECK THE KEGEL MUSCLES?
— You need to insert a finger into the vagina or ask your partner about it, then squeeze the muscles around it and pull out the finger. If it is difficult or not at all, all is well. And if the finger comes out easily, then she has too weak Kegel muscles.
— HOW DOES IT AFFECT THE SEX?
— A woman will have problems reaching orgasm, and a partner may have problems with erection because he will not feel friction in the vagina. Of course, he can feel like a pencil penis in a glass. But it has nothing to do with the size of the penis.
Another problem for women is vaginismus, or muscle contraction, which makes sex impossible. The muscles of the vagina are so tightly compressed that even a finger will not enter. The gynecologist will not be able to conduct the examination. The worst feeling a women with vaginismus, the partners of which is a large penis.
AGAIN, MORE ISN’T BETTER?
— One client told me she was afraid of sex because she thought he would tear it up. As a result, it was closed to a man, literally and figuratively.
BUT WE DON’T WANT TO SAY THAT MEN WITH LARGE SIZE ARE DOOMED TO NO SEX?
— Of course not. The biggest sexual organ is the brain. Remember that. Men with a large penis should monitor the excitement of a woman. Foreplay, kissing need to get a woman to open and develop the lubricant. Yes, it will have to wait until it comes to penetration, and you need to make sure that it is delicate. At least at first.
SAME IS THE CASE WITH ANAL SEX?
— Yes, foreplay, massage, hydration. You have to put it in like a mantra. By the way, an anecdote on this subject. When will women stop faking orgasms?
I DO NOT KNOW.
— When men will cease to imitate the foreplay!
— YES, SOMETHING IN THIS. THERE ARE MEN WHO THINK FOREPLAY IS WHEN THEY TAKE OFF THEIR SOCKS.
— Women often say: big leg — big cock. I’m a size forty-six, aren’t you?
— FORTY-FOUR. YOU WIN. THERE IS STILL A SAYING THAT THE BIGGER THE NOSE THE BIGGER THE PENIS.
— Of course, all this is a myth. Why a foot or a nose and not ears, eyes or eyebrows? Such signs concern also women. Long nose — long vagina. If you think you have a big enough one, you can go for it, and if you don’t — avoid the long-nosed ones. I’m not kidding, I heard about it from clients. Naturally, this is another myth.
— ONE OF MY FRIENDS SAID, THAT DRAWS ATTENTION NOT TO THE PENIS LENGTH AND ITS THICKNESS. AND THAT SHE PREFERS THICK.
— Many women pay attention to the width and/or thickness of the penis, since a wide penis stimulates the entrance to the vagina better, which is very pleasant in sex. But this does not mean that a man with a thin member will not be able to satisfy a woman. She can train the Kegel muscles, which will tighten the penis.
SOMEONE NEEDS TO TELL HER.
— Men usually prefer not to tell their partner about the problems, because they do not want to upset her. Then I tell them that there are special pads that can be put on the penis. But they don’t want that either, “because then it won’t be me.” They would like to do something, something in sex to fix, but so that it was natural. It doesn’t always work that way.
— ONCE THE MEMBER CAN BE TOO LONG, IT MAY BE TOO THICK.
— Yeah. And cause women pain. Some call such penises “banks”, they are similar to a jar of mustard. During sex, she moans, and the partner thinks it’s from pleasure.
— HOW BANKS REACT TO THE FACT THAT HURTING PARTNERS?
— Sometimes they avoid sex. With one tried — it was painful for. Still tried — them, too, painful for. Then a new partner, and here comes the sixth, eighth month without sex. The woman begins to think what it is, but he does not tell why he is afraid of sex. He thinks she’ll leave him because he’s a barbarian who maims women.
THE INTERNET IS FULL OF TIPS ON WHAT POSES ARE SUITABLE FOR MEN WITH A SMALL PENIS, BUT FROM YOUR EXPLANATION IT FOLLOWS THAT THOSE WHOM NATURE RICHLY ENDOWED, SHOULD LOOK FOR POSES.
— On such headlines click, but they do not bring knowledge. There is no universal instructions, each pair must understand what suits them. After all, a woman can have a bend of the uterus forward or backward, a man also has a penis that is not always straight, like a stick. Even more often not direct. Partners should feel each other and choose what will appeal to both.
Men with a small penis often think that they need to be very active in sex. “You can’t move a Cabinet with a smartphone,” I once heard from a client. Some believe that their cock should be like a sled horse that will shift any weight. That’s not the point.
Do you know what is absolutely safe and natural method of penis enlargement?
— LET’S TELL.
— Lose weight. Lose 10 pounds — and a member will increase by one and a half centimeters. 20 pounds and 3 inches! No matter how much you weigh, the fat layer at the base is reduced and the penis is lengthened. Free and Allergy-free.