ACCORDING TO STATISTICS, ABOUT A THIRD OF POLES DO NOT USE CONTRACEPTION. HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE?
— They don’t want to use condoms, let alone pills: according to religious views, which are strongly supported by conspiracy theories about pharmaceutical companies, they are the offspring of the devil.
“THEY PREFER’ DIVINE — – THAT IS, WITHOUT A RUBBER BAND.”
— And it is important to remember that in men who do not use any means of contraception, there may be erectile dysfunction caused by fear of unwanted pregnancy.
OTHERS COMPLAIN THAT UNTIL THEY FIND, OPEN AND PUT ON A CONDOM, THE ERECTION WILL DISAPPEAR.
“Where’s the condom?” In the wallet? No. In the closet? Also no! Maybe a jacket? Just been petting, kissing, and now nervous running around the apartment. Naturally, in such stress, the erection will disappear. The woman lies and says, “Beloved, enter me,” and he cannot. In some men, this causes a feeling of unconquered obstacles: “I’m a loser!”. But we must remember: it is a myth that during sexual intercourse, the penis should always be hard. Erection works at the time of contact waves. It’s called erection fluctuation.
Yes, the process of putting on a condom is not a very pleasant experience, but after that it is not necessary to immediately move on to penetration. You can return to the preliminary caresses, to have an erection back. To think that a condom on a penis is instant penetration is wrong.
AND PUTTING ON A CONDOM CAN BE MADE AN ELEMENT OF SEXUAL ACTION.
— You can ask your partner to put a condom on you. Also sexologists recommend to continue caress at the time of putting on.
SOME DO NOT WANT TO USE CONDOMS, AS THEY REDUCE SENSITIVITY.
— There are men who do have problems in the condom, weaken the feeling of touching the head or bridle. But this problem has a solution — the so-called method of elongated vagina. The woman lubricates the palms with lubricant and applies them so that the man first enters the palms, and then the woman. She squeezes her hands to make him feel resistance, so the sensations will be much stronger. With each act, the woman needs to ease the pressure — and after some time, the man will quietly adjust to sex in a condom. The same is recommended for men who feel too much free space in the vagina.
IT IS IMPORTANT TO USE ONLY WATER-BASED LUBRICANTS.
Yes, because fats (in oils or creams) destroy latex. One patient of mine was angry and said he didn’t believe in condoms because he used them and his partner got pregnant anyway. When I asked him exactly how he used condoms, it turned out that he used oil for newborns, as the partner had a dry vagina. Hence the result.
It should be remembered that at the time of withdrawal of the member after penetration it is necessary to hold a condom. If he stays inside, the sperm could spill out-and it’s worthless.
— In addition, I remind you that in the yard of 2018, there are latex-free condoms on the market, much thinner, allowing you to maintain sensitivity even better. They are suitable for men who complain of allergies to latex and use it as an excuse.
“DOWN WITH THE EXCUSES!
— There is another important aspect. A condom is the only effective way to protect against sexually transmitted diseases. About sex without a condom can only think being in permanent monogamous relationships — in other cases too high risk to be infected. This applies to both vaginal and anal sex.
WHAT ABOUT ORAL SEX?
It’s an easy way to earn big problems. Men who seek the services of prostitutes usually use condoms only when entering the vagina, and these women serve many customers. It is enough to touch the wound on the gums or palate, which may appear even from the crust on the bread.
— MUNDANE SITUATION.
— A patient of mine met a young man on vacation. They went for a walk on the beach. Sand, romantic mood-of course. He didn’t have condoms and they had oral sex. He suddenly came in her mouth. After a while, it turned out that she had HIV. You have to be very careful.
SOME MEN PAY EXTRA FOR SEX WITHOUT A RUBBER BAND.
According to research, 70 % of men who use the services of prostitutes, persuade them to such a risky and irresponsible form of sexual contact. And prostitutes agree, usually for the appropriate payment or out of fear of violence or loss of the client. I have clients who have confessed themselves satisfied of prostitutes orally. Sorry for the vulgarity, but I have to say this: they thus licked what was left inside the previous customers.
For some who like to humiliate themselves, it’s such a fetish. Also this could be a tendency to masochism.
I THINK THERE ARE CONDOMS FOR WOMEN.
— Femidon. They are not very popular, as well as napkins for oral sex.
WELL, THAT’S TOTALLY EXOTIC.
They are very popular in the UK. With us, they have not yet taken root in the public consciousness. Maybe because the problem of STDs, sexually transmitted diseases, is still marginalized.
They are made of polyurethane. There is no smell and taste, and sometimes with a taste of grapefruit, mint, strawberry. They are suitable for oral, vaginal, anal sex. Google it.
— POPULAR METHOD OF CONTRACEPTION AT THE POLES — COITUS INTERRUPTUS.
Yes, and it is absolutely ineffective “method”. The sexologists he is not included in the list of contraception!
Many people think that it is enough not to cum in the vagina, and the woman will not get pregnant. But before the man cum, dick highlighted preejaculate, which also has sperm.
And, of course, the interrupted act does not protect against sexually transmitted diseases at all.
— I GUESS THAT ERECTION PROBLEMS CAUSED BY FEAR OF PREGNANCY, OFTEN IT IS FOR LOVERS OF INTERRUPTED INTERCOURSE.
— Oh, yeah. This is the largest group of men who are afraid of pregnancy.
“ACTUALLY, THAT’S RIGHT. FEELS CAT.
— Focus during sex that I was pleased his partner was pleased that I had the orgasm that she had an orgasm, so as not to commit too quickly to an erection has not disappeared, but still, everything else in order to pull the member from the vagina is a balancing act, but in addition a huge stress. So you can walk to neurosis. Not to mention how it interferes with arousal and complicates the maintenance of an erection (and sometimes makes it impossible).
“THEN WHY DO SO MANY PEOPLE USE THE INTERRUPTED ACT?”
First, from carelessness. “Perhaps nothing will happen,” they think. Second, out of ignorance. Thirdly, because of the myth that if you do not cum in a woman, she will not get pregnant. Fourthly, because of the incredible confidence of some men that if a woman does not want, she will not get pregnant.
That’s where all the trouble comes from. Couples come to me and tell me that the child to them, probably, fell from the moon, as they had sex, but the man in the woman did not finish. “Lunar pregnancy.”
“SOME CALL IT THE IMMACULATE CONCEPTION.
Religion has a great influence on the choice of the interrupted act as a “means of contraception.” We’ve come to terms with adultery, but contraception is still a great sin. Some use condoms on the principle of “until dark, Allah not sees”, but hormonal contraception — this simply “Holocaust sperm”, as I often hear from mouths of my patients.
— And when you masturbate and “send children to the sea” by flushing sperm down the toilet — is it not the Holocaust? I ask.
No, because Masturbation is not a sexual act.
— When do you use the interrupted act?”
— I don’t cum in my vagina, so it doesn’t count.
What if you come in a condom?
Same thing. Only when the sperm is in the vagina, a person is born, and hormonal contraception kills him.
I THINK SOMEONE SKIPPED BIOLOGY CLASS.
— Many women are also afraid of hormonal contraception. They have a lot of myths in their heads. That it causes cancer, miscarriages, complicates late pregnancy, lowers libido and causes excess weight. None of this is true.
Sexologists and gynecologists repeat that for couples in permanent monogamous relationships, modern contraception, such as patches, rings and spirals, hormonal pills is the best method. Thanks to him, partners feel a sense of security and freedom. No need to be puzzled with search of condoms, the fact that you lost the erection, the fact that during penetration penis will be less sensitive, so that the partner gets pregnant. You can get full pleasure from sex. Of course, provided that both partners are confident that they are not carriers of any diseases that can infect each other.
“WHAT ABOUT THE VASECTOMY?”
— It is effective, but you need to seriously weigh everything, as it is often irreversible. I had a patient who decided to have a vasectomy after the birth of three children, and a few years later divorced his wife and met another woman. She really wanted a child from him, but, unfortunately, the procedure in the opposite direction failed. He’ll be barren for the rest of his life.
— AND AFTER DRESSING THE VAS DEFERENS, CAN YOU COME?
Yeah, just no sperm in the ejaculate.
— THERE IS ONE CONTRACEPTIVE THAT THE CATHOLIC CHURCH TAKES. I MEAN THE CALENDAR METHOD. WHAT DO EXPERTS THINK ABOUT IT?
— This method is suitable only for couples in monogamous relationships. A woman needs to learn how to accurately calculate fertile days and carefully record the duration of the cycle-at least six months. According to research, only after about three years, you can be sure that everything is calculated correctly. In addition, this method has many limitations that can also lead to neurosis.
The calendar method will not work for young women — they have an unstable cycle. In addition, the sperm of a young man can live in the vagina for up to seven days, that is, there is a risk of pregnancy, even if the sex was a few days before ovulation. This sperm can wait.
The regularity of the cycle is also affected by excessive alcohol consumption, insomnia, infections, fever, regime failures as a result of frequent change of time zones, frequent change of day and night.
THEN THERE ARE THE OWLS OF THE PROBLEM.
The calendar method works only for women who lead a very stable life, but still its effectiveness as a protection against pregnancy is not very high.
“WHAT’S SHE LIKE?”
Every contraceptive has a Pearl index. It is very simple: it is calculated based on how many women out of a hundred will get pregnant using this method during the year. The lower the index, the more effective this method. Failure to use contraception has a pearl index of 85-90. Condom 3-7. One-component contraceptive pills-1-3. Patch-0.9. IUDs have a Pearl index of 0.1–0.2. The intrauterine ring is 0.65. Two-component birth control pills have a Perl index of 0.1. For the calendar method, the Perl index is 5-9. That is, out of a hundred women using this method, five to nine become pregnant within a year.