SOMETIMES IT IS DIFFICULT TO RECOVER FROM THE CONSEQUENCES OF HOT SEX.
— Men who work as drivers often get an accidental erection as a result of constant pressure on the prostate. And here such a man passes through the forest, in which there are ladies. Stops, somewhere under a tree or in the cab uses their services. Those who serve truckers most often buy the cheapest condoms (if at all), which are easily torn during the act. I also heard from several clients that they had good quality protection with them and … fuck!
No one obliges men to engage in paid sex, so they are responsible for the fact that they may become infected with HIV or sexually transmitted diseases.
THIS IS NOT A VERY COMMON VIEW. SOCIETY’S ANGER FOCUSES ON PROSTITUTES WHO INFECT MEN, NOT ON MEN WHO PAY PROSTITUTES FOR SERVICES.
“Not widespread, but true. If men didn’t go to them, the market would disappear. In this case, men who have engaged in risky sex, you can notice two opinions. The first are scared, and they refrain from sex for three months in order to get reliable results of an HIV test and not infect anyone at this time. Others will give up: nothing happened.
AND WHICH OPTION OUTWEIGHS THE PERCENTAGE?
— The second group is more numerous.
THAT IS, IRRESPONSIBLE.
— Some of my clients, telling that during sex with a prostitute, their condom burst, are often afraid not so much for their partner, but for themselves. They also fear legal consequences if it turns out that they infected her.
HIV is easy to get infected not only when ejaculation occurs in the vagina or anus, but also in the mouth. It is enough that the one who takes the sperm will have a wound on the gums. In a high-risk situation, such as sex for money, it is worth protecting yourself during oral contact. Some of my clients, before using the services of a prostitute, ask her if she is healthy. Of course, she says Yes. To which they clarify: “OK, would you have swallowed the sperm?”. If a woman agrees, you can be sure that her health is not all right.
THIS IS PROBABLY A RARE SITUATION. MORE OFTEN I HEAR ABOUT MEN WHO PAY EXTRA FOR SEX WITHOUT A CONDOM.
“Unfortunately, it’s true. At one of the congresses of sexologists, Professor Zbigniew izdebski said that 70 % of men who resort to the services of prostitutes do not use condoms! That is, they are absolutely aware of the risk of Contracting any disease!
— Especially since HIV is almost asymptomatic until it turns into AIDS, so after each such contact, you need to take a blood test in a diagnostic and consulting center, which is available in any major city.
HIV APPEARED IN THE TWENTIETH CENTURY, AND IN THE TWENTY-FIRST CENTURY SYPHILIS RETURNS AS OLD AS THE WORLD.
— Yes, now there are more and more cases of syphilis. The problem is that it is becoming less susceptible to treatment.
HOW DOES IT WORK?
— During the first three to four weeks from the moment of infection, an ulcer with a hard crust appears.
- On the penis, in the mouth, on the hand. This is the place where the pale Treponema bacteria entered. One of my clients contracted syphilis while kissing a prostitute who apparently had an ulcer in her mouth. It appeared on the inside of his cheek.
I THOUGHT YOU COULD DO ANYTHING WITH A HOOKER, BUT NOT KISS ON THE MOUTH.
“It’s a myth. Many men really only come for sex. But in my group of sex addicts, as many as 60 % of them kiss prostitutes. Every third person tries to make a prostitute cunnilingus.
When I ask them why they do this, they say that they do not want to objectify these women, they want to give the impression that this is normal sex. Therefore, some prefer to give money to students to create the illusion that they are their mistresses.
I RECENTLY READ AN ARTICLE ABOUT HOW THIS IS NOT SUCH A RARE FORM OF “EARNINGS” AMONG FEMALE STUDENTS. I DON’T WANT TO BELIEVE IT.
— Yes, I had a lot of clients who are now serious married ladies in their 30s and 40s, and in their youth they earned so much.
THEIR HUSBANDS PROBABLY DON’T KNOW ABOUT THIS?
— No, they never tell them. This is known by some friend who can be trusted and who most often earned it herself. But returning to syphilis: usually after the next three weeks, changes occur, so the ulcer is often neglected. After about 9-15 weeks after infection, a rash and sores appear, nothing itches. If at this stage you do not contact a dermatologist-venereologist and do not undergo treatment, syphilis will go into a hidden phase. At this time, pale Treponema bacteria destroy internal organs and prevent them from functioning.
AND THIS ISN’T THE END?
— No, about seven years after infection, syphilis of the nervous system develops, attacking the brain and spinal cord. As a result, there is inflammation of the meninges, stroke, neurological changes, and mental illness. Approximately 10-12 years after infection, bacteria damage the aortic valve, there is inflammation of the aorta, inflammation of the heart muscle, inflammation of the brain vessels.
OH MY GOD.
— That’s not all. Late syphilis causes changes in the skin and external organs. Appear gum syphilitic nodes on the head, nose, cheeks. When they disintegrate, they leave ulcers in the center of which a scar forms. Gummas that form in the oral cavity can pierce through the palate. They can also damage the nasal cartilage, which leads to characteristic forms of syphilis of the nose.
SYPHILIS IS LIKE A TORNADO THAT DESTROYS THE ENTIRE BODY. THEREFORE, IT IS NOT SURPRISING THAT BECAUSE OF SYPHILIS, WHICH WAS FOUND IN SIGISMUND AUGUSTUS, THE JAGIELLON DYNASTY DIED. THE SECOND “POPULAR” DISEASE IS GONORRHEA.
“It’s also called clap. If left untreated, it causes infertility.
Fortunately, gonorrhea is easily diagnosed early because it starts with a burning sensation in the urethra during urination. A drop of pus may appear near the opening of the urethra. But in women, gonorrhea does not have bright manifestations and may not give any symptoms at all.
THE SAME AS IN PASSIVE HOMOSEXUALS INFECTED DURING ANAL SEX.
- Gonorrhea is caused by the bacteria diplococci, or gonococci. Diplococci are most often found in pairs in a single shell. Infection can occur during sexual intercourse, anal sex, or oral stimulation. Interestingly, diplococci of gonorrhea live on open surfaces (toilet seat, towel) for up to four hours.
Therefore, you should lay something on the seat before sitting down.
Human papillomaviruses are no less insidious than gonorrhea. This is a large family with more than a hundred subtypes. Two of them, the 16th and 18th, cause cervical cancer in women, and in men — neoplasms of the penis and anus.
I recently had a client whose father had a growth in his penis that caused his death. Now the client, if something happens to his penis, runs to the sexologist.
I’M NOT SURPRISED. HE’S PROBABLY AFRAID OF GENETICS.
- Numbers 6 and 11 are responsible for the occurrence of genital warts. These are small formations that can be flat or elongated. They can be single or group, on the penis, anal opening, in the groin, or everywhere at once. Sometimes they grow so large that they resemble cauliflower.
ONCE THEY SAID “PICK UP CAULIFLOWER FROM A PROSTITUTE”.
— They are removed using a laser, but despite the removal, the virus remains in the body. Therefore, HPV vaccination is recommended, primarily for girls aged 9 to 14 years, but I would also recommend vaccination for boys aged 11-12 years.
AS FAR AS I KNOW, HERPES CAN’T BE COMPLETELY CURED EITHER.
“Yes, it’s true. Infection with genital herpes occurs during sexual contact. The first symptoms appear two to seven days after contact. These are itchy pimples on the genitals that turn into painful wounds. Unfortunately, genital herpes can return. The suppressed virus only waits for the body to weaken and activate.
Another common symptom of risky sexual encounters is the bacterium Chlamydia trachomatis. It is transmitted sexually and during childbirth to the child from the mother.
— The most susceptible to chlamydia infection are young people who are just starting sexual life and do not use condoms, as well as people who have a lot of casual sexual contacts.
Different subspecies of bacteria, of which there are more than ten, can be the cause of many diseases. They cause inflammation of the urethra, appendages, and prostate in men. In women, they are the cause of cervical ectopia (in half of cases) and cysts. Chlamydia also leads to inflammation of the bartholine glands, inflammation of the fallopian tubes, secondary infertility and inflammation in the abdominal cavity. Other complications include inflammation of the joints, throat, and Reiter’s syndrome.
Immediately after infection, the patient does not feel anything. Only after 7-14 days, women have abundant vaginal discharge, pain when urinating, and blood after sexual intercourse.
AND IF SOMEONE HAS CONTRACTED ONE OF THESE DISEASES WHERE IT IS NECESSARY IN THE FIRST PLACE TO RUN?
— It is better to the venereologist. This doctor deals directly with sexually transmitted diseases. Women can go to a gynecologist, and men can go to a urologist. All these specialists can provide competent assistance in these sensitive issues.
FROM WHAT YOU SAY, IT’S NOT ENOUGH TO PROTECT YOURSELF TO AVOID SUCH ADVENTURES.
— It is best to avoid risky contacts. We don’t know where, when, or who might infect us. Especially when we travel all over the world: for student exchanges, for work, or privately at all inclusive. I have two business clients who bring a surprise every time they return from Latin America.
HOW DOES THIS HAPPEN — THEY DON’T LEARN FROM THEIR MISTAKES?
— Very simply. The male stereotype is: avoid challenging women, they are potential carriers of diseases, and you should use condoms in contact with them.
FEMALE STEREOTYPE: AVOID THE WOLVES.
— And both of them are wrong. Because both the gray mouse and the good boy can carry dangerous diseases. And they just sleep with “calm” women.
— Ask people who are addicted to sex — they are infected from people who are least expected to do so. Now they often repeat: “Life is full of unimaginable surprises.”